Sex chats between coples
Today couples have an onslaught of distractions keeping them from having sex, Andres said.“A lot more people are connected to devices— if they are watching videos, TV in the bedroom, texting or updating Twitter feeds, it's detrimental to their sex lives,” Andres said.She compares refreshing a Twitter or Facebook feed to gambling.“That immediate gratification can be more compelling than let’s take the time to get in the bed and have sex,” she said.If you could get a waft of freshly brewed love potion, what aroma would arouse your most passionate feelings of romance?
From burning calories and strengthening your vaginal walls, to reducing stress and helping you sleep, sex offers a range of health benefits. Though people are quick to compare themselves against others, there is no magic number when it comes to how often you should have sex with your partner, according to Mary Andres, a professor at the University of Southern California, and co-coordinator of marriage and family therapy program.
Andres said couples need to understand how often each person needs to have sex to be fulfilled in the relationship.“Some people want to have sex every day, and they are,” she said.
“Other people have other priorities, so sex isn’t on the top of their list, so they are having it less.”The primary problem for many couples is not the frequency of sex, but how they talk about it, according to Heidi Crockett, a licensed psychotherapist in Florida and an (AASECT) American Association of Sexuality educators, counselors and therapists, certified sex therapist."If both people in the couple have a general desire to want to please their partner and participate in the relationship and talk about things openly, usually something can be negotiated that can satisfy both people," Crockett said.
But we can also see two people who hold on to their restrictions, who deny themselves the right for satisfaction and choose to make rational decisions every single day.
Practicality doesn’t go well with sexuality, and while other partners can awake their sexual creativity and form an intimate bond with them, two Capricorn partners will rarely satisfy each other in a sexual and an emotional sense combined.